Ok, the mobile discussion gets going this morning when I vent out a blog via text as to how frustrated I personally am of men, who are total strangers, approaching me, the friendly one at times in our group with sexual conversation or advances that they would never dare say to my friends, who were less approachable at the initial 'hi, how are you' phase. They usually look at the guy like he is complete dirt when he opens his mouth to attempt to say hi, and he fades away into the darkness, until he sees my friendly smile, and southern girl, raised by a REAL southern woman and grandmother mannerisms...and then he opens his mouth with the TOTAL disrespect approach!....
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So as I share this, some of my men friends suggested that maybe I should just ask the guy who does that, why did he approach me with inappropriate conversation and we have never met...
...I add here, yes people, I was fully covered, chin to shoe!...
...my reply to asking the jerk anything advice was simply, No, I try to follow advice my mother gives, saying that those type of men just want ANY conversation. I agree, so SAY NOTHING! Most of those types have nothing in between their ears and so your question would come to their ears, 'hey baby, fuck me'...when you simply said, 'why did you approach me like that?'...so no, conversation is not the answer.
Midday I shared maybe it would be best for me to immediately dial 911. When the cops arrive have the idiot arrested for sexual harassment. Hey, I am in Texas, that is a legal charge and the brother would go downtown. And then I was venting to my best friend (lady).... I should add to the 911 call, by calling the local news station as the guy is being arrested and share the story with the reporter for the 10 o'clock news...
...somehow, that made me feel a lot better, cannot wait to exercise that right on the next fool who approaches me wrong.
Now later my best friend (guy) shares with me that most men who come at me, versus my friends, are the members of the 90% Idiot club who's motto is 'THICKER WOMEN are EASIER'...sigh!!!!
I am now shocked that such a category exists, let alone there are fools younger than 195 years old that would even entertain that stupidity in this day and age, so I vent out outtraged that 'any man a part of that dumb percentage may our God place herpes and other STD's on their mediocre male parts!'..(umm you all know I did not use that latter term to describe 'IT'...
...somehow I felt better after that (will share that with my therapist ;)...)
...I later concluded the discussion by simply saying 'My diagnosis on the 'thicker girls are easier syndrome' is this: Male subjects who resort to placing women in categories in order to attempt to strengthen their approach in hopes of the woman paying them any attention, those particular male subjects suffer DEEP insecurity issues and lack of Self Esteem and need medication that has YET to be invented!...
...however, these are simply my thoughts and opinions, so what is your take on this subject??
~ms deeVa~
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It is such a shame; that there are men who prowl around; awaiting for woman who they feel that are in such a category (Thinker Women are Easier), and show no respect. I feel a lesson of the magnitude should be taught; by call 911, and the news cast be present so it can be made known that such behavior exist. It is the same behavior of a child predator who knows how to win a child over with trust, and then start making them think that what they are doing to then is OK! This type of behavior needs to be addressed and made known; and men will learn that it is not the type of behavior that is accepted and needs to stop!!!! Maybe some men you can say "If you ever approach me like this again or I will call the authorities and have you arrested for sexual harassment; just maybe they will get the picture and stop. Being informed sometimes of your behavior will make you notice that maybe I need to do a reality check, and then start making me become aware of what I say and do. This will only work for some; not all will take heed; there the ones will have to be shown by example. This also goes for woman as well. What a topic of concern and hope that by one or more examples it will get the attention of many, and bring this madness to a stop. Thanks for sharing and sorry for any one who have had to experience this type of behavior.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous, I agree it is a true shame, and I love your comparison to a child predator, because it is just as disgusting type of behavior. I am made huge plans to dial 911 the next time it happens, around this Army base you have individuals that apparently had no real upbringing, or if they did, they failed to bring those lessons into the world of adulthood!! I plan to not just vent about it on a blog, but dial 911 and call the local news reporter and make an example out of that one, in hopes to teach a lesson to them ALL!!!!
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