Showing posts with label Betrayal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Betrayal. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Why Do So Many Fear Another Person's Success?

Here is what happens entirely too often: Someone receives a vision,

writes it down, and over time the vision comes to pass, so others begin

to see the vision.

What happens next?

You would think that congratulations would be in order...

...NOT!

Those who fear the vision's success fail to use the word congratulations

and let it stand alone. Oh, yes, most of the time some will start out with

a compliment...and then here comes their negative to sweep that

compliment right on out the door!

You have seen that happen before haven't you?

Or, it has happened to you, right?

Are you asking the seemingly simple question "But why?!"

I answer you by saying 'It is simply fear.'

Many I talk to who have never met me before, call it to be fear as well!

You have heard me say it several times if you have tuned in to my

'Relationship Talk' shows on iLast Radio...and then along came tonight's

phenomenal interview with Author Oliver Reid on 'Let's Talk' and he

said it as well.

What I have learned in life, fear often breeds negativity. People fear

where you could go, and if, if, if, they had the dream or desire to go

there also, get ready for the negatives they will throw at you...yet

remember, they are simply doing so based off of their own Fear!

That my luv, is not your problem, it is theirs!

I highly suggest you check out August 2, 2011 interview on 'Let's Talk

feat Special Guest Oliver Reid' on iLast Radio! Very inspirational and you absolutely

will get a clearer vision as to why people do some of the unexplainable

things that they do when it comes to what you trust and know is your

God given vision!

Be inspired, check it out here

~Mz DeeVa~

"Mz DeeVa is an U.S. Army Widow since the tragic loss of her husband November 12, 2004 in Fallujah, Iraq during Operation Iraqi Freedom. She is the author of newly released memoir 'Great Sex Is Not Love and Never Will Be' now available on Amazon.com for Kindle, on Paperback and via your Nook (www.barnesandnoble.com)
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~Team DeeVa, Texas~



Thursday, December 30, 2010

In Europe and Tired of a Married Man's Advances

Mz DeeVa:
"...my friend's husband wont leave me alone, He keeps sending me messages. He has been trying to get with me for years I managed to keep him off but recently he got a hold of my number and he wont let off with the messages...."

Dear Frustrated in Europe:
Hey lady! That is going on like crazy here in Central Texas also!
Men like that have to be ignored at all levels! Dont even tell them to stop texting because their shallow minds hear 'she wants me bad!'
....most important; tell the friend!...
I sat on a 3 way call, where my friend told our other girlfriend of what her husband was doing a year ago; and she checked him...of course, some dogs keep it in him, so he is now back hitting same female up by email, along with some other friend girls he found on her Facebook friend's list!

Ignore men like that on all levels, it is truly the only thing that MAY work!

Mz DeeVa:
"if I tell her she will think its me leading him on. I am so fed up with this nonsense. I have married idiots at work chasing me, 3 of them, no matter how much I tell them to lay off, they wont."

Dear Frustrated in Europe:
I know your frustration and believe me, it is not you, those men have greediness issues, cannot just be happy with who God gave them; so they want to come have some 'jump off' fun for a few months and Sundays until their guilt sets in with the first lady victim who will fall for their crap!

Right thing to do: Tell the wife, she will be angry now, but I promise you, I have had thank you calls years later, from 2 exact same situations! Wives will call and say 'thank you' when they finally grow tired of the games. In your current situation, your friend, the wife, already knows or suspects that he is up to something, that is the way of woman!!
So tell her; and show her email and text proof if she asks for it....and then walk in to 2011 with that being THEIR mess and not yours ma.

Hoping this post helps many women in the same predicament. Feel free always to email your questions to me direct at: mividanow@gmail.com or DM to me on Twitter, as well as Facebook or Myspace them!

~Mz DeeVa~

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