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e who loves you is everything..#imdigginthat"

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She Think She's All That Syndrome

I recently had a conversation with a friend girl about how she views

my interactions with different women that come in and out of my life.

She mentioned that she cannot comprehend fully how I do it; how do I

deal with so many diverse types of women, and how do I deal with the

types who are obviously coming around with a competitive attitude?

Like I shared with my friend girl, my way is unique, yet not

unattainable!

I simply accept how people are when they arrive at my front door. I

do not ever get on a mission to change them. I will often encourage

them towards paths that may show them life in a different light, yet

you will never hear me telling any of my friends that they should do it

this way or that way!

And I simply do not feed into the negativity that comes with

comparisons or competitive personality types!

Ladies, when you walk into another woman's life, befriend her

sincerely and you may actually clearly see the reason God allowed you

both to cross paths. When I become a friend, I am just that. No hidden

agendas; I am here and aware that God allowed you in for a reason.

My advice to you all who are struggling with it is this: Pray about it.

Ask God to help you not to act like that; ask God to help you not to be

so judgemental and bossy; stop telling women how to be in order to

fit your lifestyle and just allow them to grow into who they are to

become!

And of most importantly, do away with your competive ways of past

female friendships and just fully embrace the women you meet on this

journey we call life.

The only female, a woman should compare herself to is her own self!

Compare yourself to the little naive girl that you were years ago, to the

woman that you have become today!

Who cares if your friend girl has a seemingly better house, car or relationship? Who

cares if her body is more fit or if the strands of her hair are a little

longer?

Stop the competitions and Do you!

And allow God to show you the person you have been competing

with..
Ask Him to share with you why he allowed the both of you to cross

each other's paths. Look for the positives and stop creating the

negatives.

Again my personality and ability to embrace all types of women is

not something that is impossible to emulate...take down your

competitive guards and just give it a try and watch how you begin to

relax in the peace of mind this way of living brings about!

~Mz DeeVa~

P.S. Never Judge a Book By Its Cover ;-) Hope to meet you soon!!

Why Do So Many Fear Another Person's Success?

Here is what happens entirely too often: Someone receives a vision,

writes it down, and over time the vision comes to pass, so others begin

to see the vision.

What happens next?

You would think that congratulations would be in order...

...NOT!

Those who fear the vision's success fail to use the word congratulations

and let it stand alone. Oh, yes, most of the time some will start out with

a compliment...and then here comes their negative to sweep that

compliment right on out the door!

You have seen that happen before haven't you?

Or, it has happened to you, right?

Are you asking the seemingly simple question "But why?!"

I answer you by saying 'It is simply fear.'

Many I talk to who have never met me before, call it to be fear as well!

You have heard me say it several times if you have tuned in to my

'Relationship Talk' shows on iLast Radio...and then along came tonight's

phenomenal interview with Author Oliver Reid on 'Let's Talk' and he

said it as well.

What I have learned in life, fear often breeds negativity. People fear

where you could go, and if, if, if, they had the dream or desire to go

there also, get ready for the negatives they will throw at you...yet

remember, they are simply doing so based off of their own Fear!

That my luv, is not your problem, it is theirs!

I highly suggest you check out August 2, 2011 interview on 'Let's Talk

feat Special Guest Oliver Reid' on iLast Radio! Very inspirational and you absolutely

will get a clearer vision as to why people do some of the unexplainable

things that they do when it comes to what you trust and know is your

God given vision!

Be inspired, check it out here

~Mz DeeVa~

"Mz DeeVa is an U.S. Army Widow since the tragic loss of her husband November 12, 2004 in Fallujah, Iraq during Operation Iraqi Freedom. She is the author of newly released memoir 'Great Sex Is Not Love and Never Will Be' now available on Amazon.com for Kindle, on Paperback and via your Nook (www.barnesandnoble.com)
Visit the Facebook fan page for weekly discounts on autographed pre-purchase copies http://www.facebook.com/mzdeeva4you
And do not MISS the tour 'Never Judge a Book By Its Cover' which features Mz DeeVa's
'Sex is Not Love'
(Dallas, Tx 8/19...Richmond, Va 8/20...Manhattan, NY 10/15...Atlanta, Ga and London, England TBA.
BOOKING has OPEN dates, email: mividadnow@gmail.com"
~Team DeeVa, Texas~