Elin is moving back in and Tiger has reportedly decided on date to return to PGA Tour...wow, did we just hand out the Oscars to the wrong individuals America??...could it be it was a management strategy because it appears these days that drama sells movies, CDs, and now maybe even heightens the status of golfers!...smh
And let us not forget true nominations would have been appropriate for the many mistresses that popped up...were they paid to degrade themselves? I mean they do appear to be individuals who have no shame?
What do you all think? I say, it was a scam from the get for sake of attention, and we fell for it, so now America, we just made Tiger's money increase, as he showed America it is ok to cheat on your wife, with many women, because as Elin has made it look, the wife will come back?!
Share your thoughts, please...
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Thicker Women are Easier?!
Ok, the mobile discussion gets going this morning when I vent out a blog via text as to how frustrated I personally am of men, who are total strangers, approaching me, the friendly one at times in our group with sexual conversation or advances that they would never dare say to my friends, who were less approachable at the initial 'hi, how are you' phase. They usually look at the guy like he is complete dirt when he opens his mouth to attempt to say hi, and he fades away into the darkness, until he sees my friendly smile, and southern girl, raised by a REAL southern woman and grandmother mannerisms...and then he opens his mouth with the TOTAL disrespect approach!....
Following me?
Good.
So as I share this, some of my men friends suggested that maybe I should just ask the guy who does that, why did he approach me with inappropriate conversation and we have never met...
...I add here, yes people, I was fully covered, chin to shoe!...
...my reply to asking the jerk anything advice was simply, No, I try to follow advice my mother gives, saying that those type of men just want ANY conversation. I agree, so SAY NOTHING! Most of those types have nothing in between their ears and so your question would come to their ears, 'hey baby, fuck me'...when you simply said, 'why did you approach me like that?'...so no, conversation is not the answer.
Midday I shared maybe it would be best for me to immediately dial 911. When the cops arrive have the idiot arrested for sexual harassment. Hey, I am in Texas, that is a legal charge and the brother would go downtown. And then I was venting to my best friend (lady).... I should add to the 911 call, by calling the local news station as the guy is being arrested and share the story with the reporter for the 10 o'clock news...
...somehow, that made me feel a lot better, cannot wait to exercise that right on the next fool who approaches me wrong.
Now later my best friend (guy) shares with me that most men who come at me, versus my friends, are the members of the 90% Idiot club who's motto is 'THICKER WOMEN are EASIER'...sigh!!!!
I am now shocked that such a category exists, let alone there are fools younger than 195 years old that would even entertain that stupidity in this day and age, so I vent out outtraged that 'any man a part of that dumb percentage may our God place herpes and other STD's on their mediocre male parts!'..(umm you all know I did not use that latter term to describe 'IT'...
...somehow I felt better after that (will share that with my therapist ;)...)
...I later concluded the discussion by simply saying 'My diagnosis on the 'thicker girls are easier syndrome' is this: Male subjects who resort to placing women in categories in order to attempt to strengthen their approach in hopes of the woman paying them any attention, those particular male subjects suffer DEEP insecurity issues and lack of Self Esteem and need medication that has YET to be invented!...
...however, these are simply my thoughts and opinions, so what is your take on this subject??
~ms deeVa~
Following me?
Good.
So as I share this, some of my men friends suggested that maybe I should just ask the guy who does that, why did he approach me with inappropriate conversation and we have never met...
...I add here, yes people, I was fully covered, chin to shoe!...
...my reply to asking the jerk anything advice was simply, No, I try to follow advice my mother gives, saying that those type of men just want ANY conversation. I agree, so SAY NOTHING! Most of those types have nothing in between their ears and so your question would come to their ears, 'hey baby, fuck me'...when you simply said, 'why did you approach me like that?'...so no, conversation is not the answer.
Midday I shared maybe it would be best for me to immediately dial 911. When the cops arrive have the idiot arrested for sexual harassment. Hey, I am in Texas, that is a legal charge and the brother would go downtown. And then I was venting to my best friend (lady).... I should add to the 911 call, by calling the local news station as the guy is being arrested and share the story with the reporter for the 10 o'clock news...
...somehow, that made me feel a lot better, cannot wait to exercise that right on the next fool who approaches me wrong.
Now later my best friend (guy) shares with me that most men who come at me, versus my friends, are the members of the 90% Idiot club who's motto is 'THICKER WOMEN are EASIER'...sigh!!!!
I am now shocked that such a category exists, let alone there are fools younger than 195 years old that would even entertain that stupidity in this day and age, so I vent out outtraged that 'any man a part of that dumb percentage may our God place herpes and other STD's on their mediocre male parts!'..(umm you all know I did not use that latter term to describe 'IT'...
...somehow I felt better after that (will share that with my therapist ;)...)
...I later concluded the discussion by simply saying 'My diagnosis on the 'thicker girls are easier syndrome' is this: Male subjects who resort to placing women in categories in order to attempt to strengthen their approach in hopes of the woman paying them any attention, those particular male subjects suffer DEEP insecurity issues and lack of Self Esteem and need medication that has YET to be invented!...
...however, these are simply my thoughts and opinions, so what is your take on this subject??
~ms deeVa~
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Black women going Natural, is it all of sudden MANDATORY?
I have many thoughts, but I would say most of all, women make your choice and wear your style with confidence, no matter what it is: weave or natural. Main thing is keep it in order, keep it neat, that is key to any style a woman chooses...if you are one who has moved on past chemicals, that is a good thing, but a woman who wears weaves and has TOTAL self confidence is just as good! Whatever style you choose, wear it, and a woman who has not reached your decision level on it, may see something in your confidence, not necessarily your style, that will encourage her to try it too. What we do as women is all about example, REMEMBER, everyone has different levels of deliverance, so set the example you feel works best...and trust me when I say, GOD WILL DO THE REST!!!
Sisters just have to remember to encourage, encourage, encourage each other...who in the world do we think died and made us the 'you better wear your hair this way' God? Not saying that in a mean way, just really think about it, why must the ENTIRE world do it your way, because it works for you...well best way you can make that point is to flaunt it ladies and the 'proof will indeed be in your pudding'!
Support your sisters style if it looks good, weave, wig or natural...that positive move alone, support, goes a very long way!
mz deeVA
Sisters just have to remember to encourage, encourage, encourage each other...who in the world do we think died and made us the 'you better wear your hair this way' God? Not saying that in a mean way, just really think about it, why must the ENTIRE world do it your way, because it works for you...well best way you can make that point is to flaunt it ladies and the 'proof will indeed be in your pudding'!
Support your sisters style if it looks good, weave, wig or natural...that positive move alone, support, goes a very long way!
mz deeVA
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Did this bloggin guy just say women who love attention, have low self esteem??
And I quote:
ATTENTION, iz somth'n dat a "WOMAN" cravez... Once, the attention iz not factor'd n2 a "WOMAN'Z" life (low self-esteem)... They result 2 alot of different thingz... Ur a "WOMAN"... Do I need 2 elaborate any mor...END QUOTE
Hmmmmm????
So I chose to send him my thoughts, though I had many more, I will sit back and see what my readers will contribute...here is what I gave him...
My reply 2 his mania:
Hmmm, on the 'attention'...to me, women have laid down for hours of labor sometimes for the man they love and yet, he still manages to ignore her...women have cooked, cleaned and catered to the man she loves, and yet he goes to hang with his boys at the club/strip club rather than give her attention...women have stayed faithful to the man she loves for years and years and years, only to get why can't you do this like so and so wife or this like my sister or mother from the man she loves....
sometimes, ATTENTION, is just the ONE simple gift, the other guy has to offer, that a woman, who is not a cheater at heart, falls for so easily...especially when the ONE she loves, overlooked that simple need: ATTENTION.
Your bulletin was fun to read, decipher should I say...lol...but I had to comeback with my thoughts to your opinion...sigh, it is what a writer does best!!!
Have a great week!
wow, huh??
K readers, give me your thoughts on this one!!!
ms deeVa
ATTENTION, iz somth'n dat a "WOMAN" cravez... Once, the attention iz not factor'd n2 a "WOMAN'Z" life (low self-esteem)... They result 2 alot of different thingz... Ur a "WOMAN"... Do I need 2 elaborate any mor...END QUOTE
Hmmmmm????
So I chose to send him my thoughts, though I had many more, I will sit back and see what my readers will contribute...here is what I gave him...
My reply 2 his mania:
Hmmm, on the 'attention'...to me, women have laid down for hours of labor sometimes for the man they love and yet, he still manages to ignore her...women have cooked, cleaned and catered to the man she loves, and yet he goes to hang with his boys at the club/strip club rather than give her attention...women have stayed faithful to the man she loves for years and years and years, only to get why can't you do this like so and so wife or this like my sister or mother from the man she loves....
sometimes, ATTENTION, is just the ONE simple gift, the other guy has to offer, that a woman, who is not a cheater at heart, falls for so easily...especially when the ONE she loves, overlooked that simple need: ATTENTION.
Your bulletin was fun to read, decipher should I say...lol...but I had to comeback with my thoughts to your opinion...sigh, it is what a writer does best!!!
Have a great week!
wow, huh??
K readers, give me your thoughts on this one!!!
ms deeVa
He has 'commitment phobia', should she wait?
She utters the word commitment and he quickly changes the subject or better yet runs from the room....yes, yes, he probably has commitment phobia!!!
The question is, if he has it, should she stick around?!
Ladies, at the end of the day, it will be your individual choice. First and foremost, you have to ask yourself are you settling with this type for sake of love or are you staying the course for fear of being alone?
A woman in love is on one of those paths, no one can really control but her. Friends have to be supportive and family has to love on them even more if the one you see her in love with is an apparent bad choice. Because truth is, while she is blinded by love, she will not see it. It will take her own heart jolting experience with the guy to decide if she is going to stay or go.
And for the lady who is choosing to wait around for a guy with this phobia, for fear of being alone, my simple answer is...you are not quite ready to date...you have to step back and evaluate what causes you to fear being alone, and what are you really expecting the guy you fall for to give you if he commits? Spend some time alone, away from this guy you claim you love, and tap deeper into your fear of being alone.
It could be a great thing to leave him if he is stringing her along, because when she is alone, and not attached to his side...the guy that can love her and can commit without hesistation may be able to finally SEE her!!
Men, with commitment phobia while already in the relationship, please do ask yourself this question...do you have commitment phobia? Or are you having a lot of fun being carefree and not forcing yourself to make the decision to settle down with her?
Did that confuse any guy reading this? Here is more...men, if you have commitment phobia while in a relationship, you usually do not continue to meet other women at bars and online. You generally spend time with the girl in question or time with your friends outside of work. You know you love her, yet, you are fearful of a long term relationship with her.
The opposite of that: online flirting and chatting, hanging out at bars with single friends or married cheating friends and filling up your phone with potential new dates...that my dear, is not commitment phobia, you are simply...
...a player!!
And that would be another blog!
Share your thoughts readers!
ms deeVA
The question is, if he has it, should she stick around?!
Ladies, at the end of the day, it will be your individual choice. First and foremost, you have to ask yourself are you settling with this type for sake of love or are you staying the course for fear of being alone?
A woman in love is on one of those paths, no one can really control but her. Friends have to be supportive and family has to love on them even more if the one you see her in love with is an apparent bad choice. Because truth is, while she is blinded by love, she will not see it. It will take her own heart jolting experience with the guy to decide if she is going to stay or go.
And for the lady who is choosing to wait around for a guy with this phobia, for fear of being alone, my simple answer is...you are not quite ready to date...you have to step back and evaluate what causes you to fear being alone, and what are you really expecting the guy you fall for to give you if he commits? Spend some time alone, away from this guy you claim you love, and tap deeper into your fear of being alone.
It could be a great thing to leave him if he is stringing her along, because when she is alone, and not attached to his side...the guy that can love her and can commit without hesistation may be able to finally SEE her!!
Men, with commitment phobia while already in the relationship, please do ask yourself this question...do you have commitment phobia? Or are you having a lot of fun being carefree and not forcing yourself to make the decision to settle down with her?
Did that confuse any guy reading this? Here is more...men, if you have commitment phobia while in a relationship, you usually do not continue to meet other women at bars and online. You generally spend time with the girl in question or time with your friends outside of work. You know you love her, yet, you are fearful of a long term relationship with her.
The opposite of that: online flirting and chatting, hanging out at bars with single friends or married cheating friends and filling up your phone with potential new dates...that my dear, is not commitment phobia, you are simply...
...a player!!
And that would be another blog!
Share your thoughts readers!
ms deeVA
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